Wednesday, August 26, 2009

They're Just Having a BAD Day!

I'm sure this has happened to you before... Just sheer rudeness by someone without any tinge of provocation. What do you do? Retaliate? Let it pass?

I always pay rudeness with rudeness. After all, who do the person he/she is showing me such disrespect?! Today, it happened again.

Our delivery guy was supposed to send something to my 'princessy' client at the comfort of her condominium at some posh district.

He called me with such attitude telling me off for giving him an incomplete address to deliver to. Oh oh... don't you push it, I am not exactly known for my graciousness nor tolerance. I retaliated back with the same attitude and rudeness. Tit for a tat. I then checked with my client who confirmed with me, that is the full address (is the posher your district, the simpler and shorter your mailing address?). Uh-uh! I called back the bugger and told him off smugly now that I'm dead sure he was in the wrong. Grudgingly, he said fine and that he will look for it.

I later found out later from my colleague that his brother, who was in his 30s, had passed away recently. I felt awful. Had I known that, I would have let him vent out all his anger on me and just let his rudeness pass... Why was I so quick to retaliate? Why couldn't I think maybe he's just having a bad day? Why couldn't I tell myself he acted that way for a reason?

Next time if someone lashed out at you or seemed rude to you for no apparent reason, give his seemingly character the benefit of doubt. Maybe he's really having a bad day...


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Sunday, August 23, 2009

YOU Drive ME NUTS!

What human characteristics drive you nuts???? I have a couple but I guess top of my list is lack of opinions, beliefs, self confidence and laziness. THAT i really can't tolerate.

1) Lacking of opinions/thoughts/self identity
If someone is in her early teens, this would have been forgiveable. However I truly can't endure grown adults who don't even have opinions of their own and naively thought people are dumb to realise whatever comes from their mouths are borrowed opinions/information from others! Is there such a thing as verbal plagarism?!
Ok geez, I don't mean to be mean. I know I can be such a bitch sometimes but I truly value individuality. I believe every human no matter now geeky or how stunning you are, are made differently. I mean c'mon, we are all not manufactured in some human factory are we?! We are all lovingly made by God. Each and everyone of us.. I honestly do not know how much time he spent. To be growing up and not being true to yourself is really shortchanging God and yourself.



The crazy thing is I'm kinda a psycho magnet as a friend once put it. I have my fair share of female psychos who tried to imitate me or be my shadow. Imitation is the greatest form of flattery one may say. I'll say, get lost. I don't need no flattery, seriously just go away. This irks me to no end! Pardon my random ramblings and rants, I guess I've been keeping it inside me for too long, I mean what can you do, go to the person and say,"STOP COPYING ME YOU FOOL AND GO GET YOUR OWN FREAKING IDENTITY!" Sure I would love to do that. But do I have the guts to tear a person out like that? Nope. The fact that I'm ranting in this blog says it all.



I hate it when someone sees a great need to do whatever I do. Let's say I do activity A. Next thing I know, let's say X, has all intentions to do activity A. I proceeded to do activity B. Next thing I know, X expressed great interest in activity B without actually knowing much about it! That aside, sometimes the verbally plagarized opinions is enough for smoke to ooze out of my ears. Do you actually think you could borrow my last week's opinion and pass them off as your own a week later? I mean, are you ditzy? They are MY opinions, of cos no matter what I'll remember them for as long as I live. However, if you have been lifting too many opinions off others, you may accidentally repeat one in the face of its original owner and WHAM! You'll look like a dumbass. Only sad thing is, I simply do not know how to react to such blatant theft and even felt too embarrassed for the person to even want to say anything about it.

Try this. You use a new vocab or even a new lingo or a nicely put string of words. A day after, she'll use the exact same vocab/lingo/nicely put string of words. It is worse when the person tries to act like you, speak like you, even got into a bitchy argument with a sales person or cab driver like you. Or air kiss the bouncer like you. URGHGHGHGHHhhhhh!

What I'm trying to say is... BE YOURSELF. It is really exasperating to have to deal with people like this. It is hard to respect an individual like this cos you don't even know who he or she really is! You shouldn't be a chameleon, blending in with the different people you hang with. Being the person you thought they are. That's just insecure and lame. With person A, you claim you don't fancy this and that just cos A is like that. With person B, you contradicted yourself and be seen in places you claimed you hate just cos B has different likings from A and thus you are suddenly moulded in B now.



You are not doing justice to yourself and the person that you are. You could possibly have a great potential to be such a brilliant individual but you ain't have time to even know yourself cos you are just too busy being others. That is the sad part. You will lose credibility as an individual. You are not justifying yourself as a God's creation. You are just playing a shadow in that one precious life you have. Worse of all, you do not know just how special you are cos that side of you has been buried deeper and deeper each day with every facade you put on. I wish you the best of luck.

I'll continue with laziness another day, I have to rush off some work before I hit the sack! Nite you guys!



(18 MORE DAYS TO ISTANBUL! - my countdown starts now)
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Fancy CheeKY Costumes


Wow... Doubt they have my size, they need to make one in xxxxxxs!!!! I remembered once, someone bought me a belly dancing costume like this from Dubai. That thing is HUGEEEE man! I recalled looking at the bra cup... they were big like rice bowls. Come to think of it, I could even wear each cup as a headgear, they snugly fit my head!!!!!


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Awed by Istanbul

Palais de France, Beyoglu, Istanbul




Tünel Square, Beyoglu, Istanbul




Çiçek Pasaji by Day, Beyoglu, Istanbul (No, I don't have the Turkish keyboard yet, I merely copy and paste ;p...)




Galata Mevlevihane, Beyoglu



Galata Tower & Turkish Flag, Istanbul



Marching Band in Taksim Square


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Saturday, August 22, 2009

My Coming Istanbul Journey

Tick tock tick tock tick tock... 18 more days before I set off to Istanbul, Turkey. Excited? Yea. Scared... hell yea. While it's great friends are darn excited about my new move/journey/adventure and already making plans to visit the beautiful country, they sometimes forget that I'm not exactly there for a holiday.

It's a whole new thing for me. Me. 27. Never really travelled. Never experienced snow. Never been away from home for so long. Never been away from family. Never lived on my own. Heading there, without a job secured nor substantial savings is indeed a huge leap for me. Regardless, it never fails to make my heart beat loads and make a little skip and dance. *smile* I needed that. I need that in my life. That thing about life that makes me smile again...

I guess sometimes, I've forgotten to live. I like to set high goals for myself and can be such a bitch to my ownself. I like to do my work well, I must do it well and I must outstand. I never like to be in the background when it comes to excelling. I'm neither superbly talented nor gifted academically. Thus what I do is to focus on my strengths which is my drive and capabilities.

My maturity far exceeds my age. That is the result of hardships when I was young. Nonetheless, I'm proud. I'm proud to be me. I will never claim to be smart nor beautiful nor successful. I will claim to be a woman of strong character, with lotsa opinions and is firm with what she believes in and what she does not condone. And I will claim to be capable.

Time is always ticking, every second. That's how much of our lives we have to value. Thus, ask yourself if you are living the life you've always wanted. I gave up an attractive salary offer and groomed future in Singapore to take this path. This direction. A risky decision... yet deep in my heart I knew I have made the right one. Cos I know I am someone who will always TRY. Someone who will always lead instead of follow. I am never a blind follower of opinions or decision. My journey is coming. And I will share it with you soon...



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THE PROPOSAL

No no no no... no one proposed to me, I didn't propose to anyone, I'm not getting married, no one's getting married....

THE PROPOSAL - the new movie is out now as you guys would already have known and what can I say? 5 out of 5 popcorns!!!! hoorayyyy





This movie is AWESOME andI love it to bits. Ok, like most chicks, I've always been a romantic-comedy kinda person but I reckon I'm a rather hard to please viewer. What do you expect?? I'm a Gemini, I smile and am all charming and turn hysterical and grouchy the next second! Little things could affect my mood. Ok, going on the basis of judging a romantic comedy... if the actress is too pretty and yada yada yada, I'll think this is darn unrealistic... (yea ok so I know it is a MOVIE).. A romantic comedy has to be just right you see... the right humour... the right casts, the right environment... whether it makes sense or simply a desperate attempt of the producers'... it must be something I can associate it with... me - the freaking viewer.

First off, major brownie point - SANDRA BULLOCK. Now this cute as a button actress will always remain as one of my major top actress for a romantic comedy film. It has got to be Sandra Bullock. She's adorable, pretty, unintimating. She's really someone most chicks can relate too, well unless you look like Princess Fiona.

In this movie, Sandra came equipped with her more evident wrinkles but guess what? She hasn't lost her charm. She's hilarious, super cute and darn likeable even as a hard ass boss. Ryan Reynolds, this likeable yet hot dude is another bonus. His expressions are priceless. These two are the bomb and they are so freaking hilarious. The story plot is excellent, everything falls into place. What can I say, I love it! It's been ages since a movie made me laugh SO HARD! Perhaps the fact that I have 4 days left of work has alot to do with it as well! ;p
Not gonna be such a spoiler, go watch it. Hope you'll love it as much as I do!




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Monday, August 17, 2009

It's FOOD time baby!

Just the other day, me and my gf went to BULGGOGI Korean restaurant in the Changi Airport Terminal 2.

Don't you just love hanging out at the airport? I love that since I was a kid, I studied there for my exams and watched in awe at the lovely stewardesses and charming pilots dashing past. I love the mad frenzy the place turned into at times. I love watching people hugging in joy as they greeted their loved ones at the arrival hall... I witnessed some of the most moving scenes - little tears streaming down as a young lady waved goodbye not knowing when she'll see her loved one again.. a mother, putting on a strong front and literally biting her lips to fight back her tears as she bidded goodbye to her son who'll probably be away for years, studying abroad... I see sadness, I see joy, I see calmness, I see a rush. Most importantly... I see how HUGE the world is and how much I want to explore and visit every corners of this world and meet the craziest culture, the most beautiful architectural, the most amazing beaches and not to forget, the widest range of human species. I want to hear every single accent, befriend every single race, know every single religion and touch the hearts of every single one. The airport... that's where my dreams begin.

And that's where my dinner starts. It was my second time at BULGGOGI Korean Restaurant. It adopts a barbeque/steamboat concept and the place is quite nice. We had lots of lovely seafood the first time we went there. We decided to be wild carnivorous and opt for all the meat we could find!!

First of all, I have to apologise. This is indeed my first blog so I don't really have a habit to take pictures everywhere I go. Heck, I don't even own a camera! I know I should probably take some pictures BEFORE I start attacking the food *blush*blush*... but hey this is still better than a shot of my leftovers! haha...








What do you get when you leave two clueless chicks to cook? Seriously, this is the closest I get to real cooking!!


Wow I'm hungry just looking back at all these pictures...


And THAT is my signature ring! I've worn that ring for ages now.. I reckon close to 6 years! In fact, a funny thing just happened earlier. I went to the clinic again after breaking out in rashes this morning -the very same clinic I went to two days ago cos I was down with what I know now as VIRAL INFECTION. Cos of the fact I have had flu, I had to wear a mask today as per two days ago. Nurses in the clinic all wore masks thus all we could see were each others' eyes.
I had to have my blood pressure and temperature checked. The nurse asked me,"Your fever has not subside?" Wow. She remembered me? She remembered my eyes?? Or was I wearing the same clothes as I was 2 days ago? Looking at my quizzical expression, she explained, "Oh I recognised you from your ring." How amazing! It's like my freaking DNA!

Anyways my beloved ring is of a peacock with lovely intricate design and yes... if I were to be a bird, I'll be a peacock, walking around with pride and being a a little snooty hehe well I think women should be made that way. Women SHOULD play hard to get and women who worships/loves and talk about men all the time are a.. what's that word again .. TURN OFF?!!!! *roll eyes in exasperation*

I even told myself IF I were to get married, I would want an exact replica of that ring! Covered with diamonds of course. Never fails to stump any men. Oh look the way I disgustingly and shamelessly zoomed in my ring! hahahaha.... Reminds you of those celebrity magazine isn't it when stars are spotted with rings and the magazine never fails to zoom in on those blings! hahahaha... Aah well, move aside Paris, I think mine rocks more! Bleah!

Oh yea have to tell you guys about my fave drink at BULGGOGI!!! Check this out:



This drink is oooh so cool and refreshing and leave such nice sweet after taste in your mouth!!!



I know you guys must be wondering what the hell is that thing???! Is it a freaking FOETUS?!


No my child, that is GINSENG! (Ginseng is each of eleven species of slow-growing perennial plants with fleshy roots, in the Panax genus, in the family Araliaceae) This exotic drink is called THE WOLFBERRY GINSENG. I love the fusion of sweetness and weird bitterness of this drink, it simply made it FASCINATING. A must try even for none sweet lover like me (yes I don't even take sugar with my tea, I like it raw mannnn)! Alritey I'm off to do some reading now, have great night!


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Monday, August 10, 2009

OOHhh Yeaaa Turkey, here I come!!!

I bought my flight ticket today!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WOOOOOHHHHhhooooo!!!!! Felt the pinch though - how much was it again $1491.20!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! URGGGhhhhhhhhh.... I'll be flying with Emirates airlines with a 1.5hrs transit to Dubai. Not too bad... 1.5hrs of shopping and tea... not too long a duration to set me broke so it's quite perfect really. I cant wait! Muahahahahaha


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DEAD SEA for DEAD SKIN?

Ok it's truly no secret I have bad skin but imagine having some sales person pointing at your face and recommending you her product and as though you've forgotten who she's refering to, she started pointing at your face again every minute as a constant reminder! Err hello?! Does she think I have sudden case of amnesia or that I might end up putting the dead sea mask on the sole of my feet instead of my face thus the constant irritating need to talk about the product and pointing her freaking index finger to my face non stop??? (I swear I can say that in one breath)

This Israeli chick (the very same sales person) keeps on telling me how she knows exactly what she's talking about cos she's from Israel and so is the dead sea. Err yea. Wow. Guess someone needs to tell her, in freaking Asia, you don't freaking point at others to their faces, it is FREAKING RUDE lady. I just tried to keep my cool though I wasn't exactly nice to her.

So much raves on dead sea products! Seriously if we purely judge it by its name, you can't blame me for not being optimistic nor enthusiastic to splatter that thing on my face can you? Err.. DEAD SEA? Hmmm....

Pointing finger or not, I had to give it a try! $50 poorer and 360ml of dead sea mask richer. After my first application, few hours ago, I must say... I do like it! I'll post more of my review of my first application tomorrow. Early day for me tomorrow and back to work! Super urghh! Oh yea, HAPPY 44TH BIRTHDAY SINGAPORE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (it's a public holiday today as Singapore's birthday fall on a Sunday 9th Aug)
Till then, good night guys, off to wanderland! ZZZzzzzzz....................



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Friday, August 7, 2009

Volunteerism - LOVE for EVERYONE

I read an article on the papers days ago which made me smile. Linda Liao, a Taiwanese celebrity had volunteered in the village of Nepal, to spend time with the underpriviledge kids and educating them.

The article was indeed heart warming and touching. Yesterday, I had the chance to catch it on tv and it caused such a stir in my heart. It was utterly amazing. I bet it had indeed been a fulfilling experience for her.



A bit of info here on Nepal.. Nepal is bordering between 2 countries; India (East, South & West) and China (North). Thus, a good look at the Nepalese, you would understand their intriguing exotic looks.







I truly can't define a typical Nepalese look. Some lean towards Indian, some Chinese, some a mixture of both and yet some, eurasian like. I have had people telling me I look like a Nepalese myself, more so years ago compared to now and again, I can't figure out why.

Some amazingly breathtaking scenic pictures of Nepal:




You could almost feel yourself holding your breath isn't it looking at the gorgeous sight? It's just amazing, it looks like something photoshopped, something put together with effects. What beautiful gifts God gave us, truly something priceless...

Touching back on the main story, Linda spent her time in the village of Nepal hoping the kids are able to learn something from her. Instead, she found herself learning from the kids - learning something the not even the most prestigious school can impart. I just had to share this newspaper article with you. Hope you'll kindly spare a minute or two reading this heart warming story:


By Kwok Kar Peng
05 August 2009

'SHE didn't like the place initially. There were no modern facilities and she couldn't even get a proper shower.
But on the night before she left the Nepalese village, Linda Liao found herself in tears.
The Taiwanese celebrity had spent a week at a facility called Future Village in a remote part of Nepal, teaching English to under-priviledged kids and showing them magic tricks.
The glamorous MTV VJ - who was runner-up in a sexiest woman poll conducted by Singapore lad mag FHM in 2006 - even washed the toilet.

Future Village, 100km north of Kathmandu, was set up by a visitor from Hong Kong in 2004 with a vision of educating Nepalese children for a better future.
Linda suddenly realised she had developed an affection for the mountainous area.
She had volunteered to step out of her comfort zone and go there in May for the Singapore TV show Stars For A Cause.

This is a show where celebrities join volunteer organisations to spread their love around the world.
The episode featuring Linda's trip will air on Channel U at 8pm on Thursday.
Despite all her complaints about the place, Linda found she was reluctant to leave when it was time to do so.
The Canada-educated singer and actress, who acted in Channel 5 shows like Chase and After Hours, told The New Paper that she suddenly had a feeling of losing something she never knew she had.

So what kept her going and climbing the hills? She said it was 'the children and something in the air'.
And strangely, two weeks after she returned from Nepal, the feeling of wanting to go back kicked in.
She said: 'It wasn't until I had spoken to all of my friends about the trip and relived the moments by telling stories to people that I realised I had changed for the better, all because of Future Village.
'I never knew how good it feels to give. I am learning more magic tricks, reading more books and practising more songs because I think one day, I'll show up at the village to 'give' myself again.'
Linda celebrated her 28th birthday at Future Village with a surprise party that got her crying.
The children gathered around her and sang her a birthday song, though not exactly the one we are all familiar with.

Birthday surprise
She recalled: 'They sang, 'Happy Birthday Linda... Happy Birthday Linda' and I shed tears of sorrow because it comes as a shock that someone on this planet doesn't know how the birthday song is supposed to sound. I thought it was a universal tune.
'Yet, without a clue of how the melody goes, they managed to put together the simplest random notes they could come up with to wish me a happy birthday.
(<< I managed to catch this part on tv and I cried as well. It was so sad yet so sweet at the same time. The kids were totally oblivious to the outside world. They probably thought they have the best birthday song in the world. And you know what? They might be right.)

Despite her volunteer work, Linda admitted that she sometimes felt powerless and not good enough to make a difference and improve the things she saw.
She also wished she had taken more food, snacks, gifts and stationery after realising that the children needed those resources desperately.

On her blog, she wrote that their gift of a notebook costing a mere NT$7 (30 cents) could bring immeasurable joy to a Nepalese child.
'How I wished I had lugged 100kg of gifts for them,' she added.
Months after her return, she treasures things as simple as tap water.
In retrospect, she added: 'I have learnt a lot, not from people with greater knowledge or better abilities, but from children who taught me how to take on life, always with the best effort and always with love and care.'
Linda also declared, quite seriously, that she wants to be Asia's Angelina Jolie, not just doing voluntary work but even adopting orphans from other countries.
She told me she intends to do it not because she wants to follow Jolie but because 'it just seemed like the right thing to do'.

She added: 'Jolie inspires me and I will do what she did and more, differently. I am so fascinated by the world that I sometimes just cannot stop watching the Discovery Travel & Living channel.'
During the trip, Linda also visited the children's families and painted a wall of the school building.
The trip also gave her the very belated chance to relax and get in touch with herself.

However, she denied that the volunteer work stops when the camera stops rolling.
'I volunteered just the same with or without camera,' she said. 'A good deed comes in many forms. I could have just done it by putting change into donation boxes.
'However, I chose to do this because I believed that I will see and understand more with what's going on in the world. And only by doing so, I can become more useful and contribute to the world.'
Linda told The New paper she could never forget the sight of the children lingering around the school until it was so dark one could barely see.
'The magical feeling of being the focus of people's lives triggered me even more as a performing artiste. And I have never seen so many stars in front of me.'

It is indeed in my to do list to travel somewhere to volunter and lend a hand to the underpriviledged children. I think the experience will be enriching and will further feed my soul with love, kindness and compassion.
What about you?

Sunday, August 2, 2009

DARN COOL Wedding!

You guys HAVE to watch it or DIE REGRETTING!



Is that amazing or amazing? I can't recall how many times I've watched that repeatedly! I love it to bits! Something about how simple, pure and full of laughter and joy that is! Why oh why do people especially my dear ladies always fretting about every single minute details on their wedding??? What is it about this complete, uncomprehensible obsession with having the PERFECT wedding??? What is the perfect wedding anyways???



Is the perfect wedding one that threatens for bankruptcy? You are right on the dot I have an issue with marriage. I find it all too creepy and scary for my liking! Marriage is getting more and more of a joke these days as people are just treating it with lesser and lesser respect and dedication. I almost find it useless. The horrors of being with just one person for the rest of your life without a guarantee he/she will never have a change of heart for you say 5 or 10 years time. I certainly am not in a hurry to tie the knot and barely think much about it. I do know of women however who are simply in denial, declaring total nonchalance on marriage but secretly harbouring the thought of getting married!!! haha.. Honestly I don't care if age is catching up on me and whatever biological clock or what have you...

Speaking of biological clock,lets talk about MEN's biological clock! I found this off the net that I want to share with you guys! hahaha hilarious...



True? Not? What say you? ;)



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I WANT AN AWESOME BOD!!

Ok raise your hands if you think you got a perfect bod! Chances are...not many. Doesn't stop any of us from dreaming though. While most women yearn to lose weight, I could certainly do with a little more weight! Hey hey hey, before you start pointing fingers at me, I DO EAT. IN FACT I HAVE AN AMAZINGLY HEALTHY APPETITE! High metabolism may have ALOT to do with it! (Drill that in your brains to that nasty big-as-a-house gf who accuse me of being an anorexic and ganging up on me with her equally huge gf) Or maybe all the food goes to my chipmunk cheeks, I don't know! Fact is, Ive been pretty much like a spaghetti since a young age, I reckon I look worse before.

I am one of those very very skinny high school kid but strangely with an unsightly paunch! I certainly am not crazy enough to post my high school pictures, just for those of you who have no idea what Im talking about, here goes...


See that? It made me look like a totally undecisive moron - like hey, you wanna be fat or skinny?? Thank God, fate decided for me as my belly fats (or maybe thats baby fats??) just shed off after I graduated.

Recently I went to TOPSHOP to try on this gorgeous dress I have in fact tried on before! Always the smallest size for me. Anyways asked the sales lady for my size and I tried it on and holy crap, it didnt fit snugly as before! In fact... it was kinda... LOOSE!!!!!!!! I was darn flabbergasted and was so upset thinking how on earth could I possibly loose any weight when I have been eating like a freaking cow?!!! It was when I did a double check with the sales lady that we realised, she had given me a size bigger! Oh, thank God!!!!!!!!!

The dress!!!




I love the gorgeous beadwork:



I later related the incident to my gf, SY (over beautiful Korean bbq/steamboat dinner) and she was like, "Omg. I can't imagine myself being upset at the thought of losing weight!!" You see, SY has been trying to lose weight. (The awesome thing is, she don't do it by totally curbing her appetite, which is fantastic cos too many complications occur when women starve themselves and I honestly don't believe in dieting! In fact that big-as-a-house gf of mine who taunted me of being an aneroxic, once fainted in a school hall before back in high school, cos she had been starving herself!!! Not to mention, great loss of hair from all the lacking of nutrients and such..) Inspiration shown on her face, she declared, "That's it! That's my new goal! I want to be at the point of being UPSET when I lose weight!!" Hahahahahaha...

Well, skinny-skinny isn't really attractive. If you are naturally skinny, I think you gotta get them toned! So which bod am I aiming for? I have never really been known for my curves, rather the lack of it hahaha... and truth be told, that's the kinda body I'm pretty much at ease with! If God were to offer me a D cup jugs or a black woman's ass, I might have to turn him down! I have never had a 'womanly body' nor do I want it. I don't think I feel too comfortable being too womanly and curvy, I just like me... perhaps a more toned up me. Slightly more meat too please.

I had a discussion with E before on the kinda body I might wanna mould my body into. I want toned, toned, toned. He did think a woman should not be too muscular, aahh well I can appreciate that. This is the bod I fancy and that I think looks GREAT:



She is my absolute favourite Victoria Secret model. She's skinny but for some reason, she has boobs! Aah well we can't all be VS material can we? If we can, I will be strutting around in feathers and wings by now. Another bod I REALLY REALLY like is:


Yes Jillian Michaels! I think Jillian is smoking smoking HOT. Very fit, toned and gorgeous. That's where E and I couldn't see eye to eye. He apparently thought Jillian is way too muscular and looks like a man. Oh c'mon I beg to differ, she's sexy, healthy and looks like a girl who can take care of herself! Check out that abs!!! Oh Jillian, you are my inspiration, I'll start digging out for my dumbells in the store room later today!!! Wow check out those arms!! To die for! Look at her, I don't think any man would even DARE to give her the boot - unless they don't mind being punched in the nose.


Ok I know I owe you guys pictures of breathtaking Turkey! It's coming!!!



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Saturday, August 1, 2009

Where? Who? What??

Ok so Im rearing to go towards my new journey. Holy cow. I think I fail to mention where on earth am I heading to! Geez. Total dumbass that I am. Ready??? *Drum rolls.....* IM HEADING TO..........



TURKEY!!!! WOOOOHoooo..... I know it's not exactly a common and ideal place to move to, strange huh? So what is the reason behind my rather unique choice??!


Is it because of...

the smoking hot Turkish lads?


OR...




their ridiculously amazing kebabs?? (salivating just thinking about it, I grew weak in the knees for Turkish cuisines!)


OR perhaps a special friend? That's E by the way.



Ok ok honestly its a mixture of everything. Turkey is known for her rich culture. A gorgeous mix of modernity yet still retaining a charming element of ancient heritage and architectural. How amazing is that? I have never been there and am truly damn EXCITED to head there despite the donkey-years flight hours that comes with it!
It certainly helps that I know people there so this is by right a decision supported by few factors. I've just finished my Diploma in TESOL and am waiting anxiously for my results (I ll bang my head on the wall if I get a C!) and with THAT cert baby, Im ready to roam the world! Muahahahaha... (okok pardon the evil laughter, not as if Im gonna conquer the world or anything)

I ll include some breathtaking pics of Turkey in my next post! Till then night guys! ;)



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August - My Last Month!!!!!

Here's the gist of it - I am leaving. Not from this earth no, but finally stepping out of a country I have spent 27 years of my life in! Not to sound like an ingrate or something, I love Singapore, truly I do. Sure all countries have its assets and flaws, I sure do have my grouses on my homeland, no doubt about that but I do give credit for this almost perfect little country of mine.

Perhaps this last month here, I will do major contemplation on this country I call HOME. I've never been known for my patriotism. I have never spent a cent buying Singapore's flag to hang up for all to see during our National Day nor would I do it even if I got one for free! Yes, yes shame on me.

Here is what a typical flat in Singapore looks right around National Day:



I don't wish to be sued for unauthorized picture *horrors* thus this is credited to keropok.com as highlighted on the bottom left hand of the picture hehe... Awesome display of patriotism there isnt it?

So aside from a sudden strange passion I have for my country, I know I will miss my friends a bunch too. Great that I don't have many! haha... I am certainly not an easy person to get along with, I sure do have my charms when I'm in a good mood, HOWEVER, as typical Geminis do, we are pretty much temperamental as it is! Another I rather stay weekends at home alone than going out with 'friends' whom I don't quite fancy.

I guess it's good and it's bad as well... I am pretty much honest about my feelings be it resentment or love. If I don't like you, chances are I won't bother going out with you or being nice to you and that I truly see you as a waste of my time. I do have a friend with wide circle of friends and I credit it to her good naturedness and also to the fact she bothers to go out with people whom she don't quite fancy and blending in with them. Again, I do not see anything wrong with it, I mean whatever rocks your day really, just that I find it too tiresome to put on a facade and personally, I feel it's as though I'm lowering myself just to have company. That, my friend, I see as a weakness - to be dependent on something/someone. What about you? Quality vs Quantity. What's your take? Do you enjoy the friends you hang around with? Or do you just keep the few gems in your life?

Speaking of friends, 2 special ladies I wish to show off:




They are both on the left (SY) and middle (T). Im the one on the right. Speaking of right and left, if not for the mole on my left hand, I would have no clear idea on how to distinguish these two. Thus if I'm in the cab and the driver asked for direction to my destination, chances are I'll do a quick glance at my mole for reassurance before directing the driver to turn right...or left. I never have problems with forward and backward though hahaha...

Aaah don't we just look like we swallowed some orange light bulbs or something? The way we freaking GLOW in the pics!!!! Aaaah the wonder of photoshop. I'm a designer in profession thus photoshop is kinda my best friend. Not to say, it totally diminish my problem skin (in a false hope way) so I look absolutely forgiving, leaning towards fantastic in pictures! How I wish they'll invent some photoshop machine as well!!!! I'll be the first in the queue to snap it!